I just want to get a sense to see if there are many others in a similar position?
We have money, we save and invest wisely. The deposit and repayments aren't an issue (for now), the problem is I just can't fathom the idea of dumping a decades worth of savings and investments into a single very overpriced asset.
I also hate the idea of taking out a million dollar loan which I then just give to someone else who just happened to be lucky enough to have been born a decade or two before me. Then I'm in debt for the next 30 years paying it off hoping and praying that the record low mortgage rate that we currently are experiencing remains and doesn't rise.
We could in theory keep a portion of our savings, and simply take out a cheap 1 or 2 bedroom apartment in an undesirable suburb - which in theory would be fine. BUT we're not keen on a cheaper apartment and I've seen first hand the absolutely horror of strata living with massive defect rectification bills, special levies out of no where, and stupid maintenance costs that I wouldn't incur if I had my own place as I'd do it myself. Also we consider the apartment market to be much much riskier than the freestanding house market.
Moving to a regional area is also out of the question due to the jobs my wife and I have, not to mention we'd also incur a lot of additional costs as we currently don't spend much in the way of transportation, but we would in a regional area.
It feels like we are backed into a corner with absolutely no way out.
I feel like it's affecting both of our mental health and we both feel pretty depressed over the whole thing. We're putting off kids because we can't raise them in a rental without any stability or certainty, and there would be the ever present threat of being forced to move and then what do you do with the kids school? It's just a multitude of potential problems.
We just feel totally burnt out and unhappy. How are other people coping with this shitty time?
Should we just bite the bullet and buy something, wasting our entire life savings and hope that everything is ok? Do we stick it out? Buy a cheap apartment and take all the risks that come with it?
lots of things to consider:
Work - is your work transferable to a cheaper state (a lot more bang for your buck in Tasmania)
Size - do you want to start a family in the next 10 years? (a unit wouldn't work if you want kids)
Quality - "renovators delight" is a great option if you're handy or may want to one day sub-divide
Strata - ugh, my experience with strata was nasty, hence why i opt for established free standing
Location - if you're in NSW, I'd opt for the train line out north, if you work in an office, the train lines are a great way to get some work done for an hour or so each day
Interest rates - yes, they will go up eventually, but that's tomorrow's problem :)
Income - if you get an established with extra rooms, you could rent them out for extra money (living money if your income goes almost completely towards mortgage)
My personal experience was great, even the dud's worked out in the end, my only regret is ditching the investment property for a steal when i wasn't working