I just want to get a sense to see if there are many others in a similar position?
We have money, we save and invest wisely. The deposit and repayments aren't an issue (for now), the problem is I just can't fathom the idea of dumping a decades worth of savings and investments into a single very overpriced asset.
I also hate the idea of taking out a million dollar loan which I then just give to someone else who just happened to be lucky enough to have been born a decade or two before me. Then I'm in debt for the next 30 years paying it off hoping and praying that the record low mortgage rate that we currently are experiencing remains and doesn't rise.
We could in theory keep a portion of our savings, and simply take out a cheap 1 or 2 bedroom apartment in an undesirable suburb - which in theory would be fine. BUT we're not keen on a cheaper apartment and I've seen first hand the absolutely horror of strata living with massive defect rectification bills, special levies out of no where, and stupid maintenance costs that I wouldn't incur if I had my own place as I'd do it myself. Also we consider the apartment market to be much much riskier than the freestanding house market.
Moving to a regional area is also out of the question due to the jobs my wife and I have, not to mention we'd also incur a lot of additional costs as we currently don't spend much in the way of transportation, but we would in a regional area.
It feels like we are backed into a corner with absolutely no way out.
I feel like it's affecting both of our mental health and we both feel pretty depressed over the whole thing. We're putting off kids because we can't raise them in a rental without any stability or certainty, and there would be the ever present threat of being forced to move and then what do you do with the kids school? It's just a multitude of potential problems.
We just feel totally burnt out and unhappy. How are other people coping with this shitty time?
Should we just bite the bullet and buy something, wasting our entire life savings and hope that everything is ok? Do we stick it out? Buy a cheap apartment and take all the risks that come with it?
Agree. But coast towns north of the central coast, south of where, kiama? (i.e. not affected by commuters) are stable because of the stable welfare income and still absurd prices for places near the beach.
Propped up by Sydney retirees, not by their own economic success. An overflow of Sydney prices (as are where I live, or the southern highlands).
We have boxed ourselves into a national corner of high property prices that really benefits nobody (well, possibly the fictional baby boomer downsizer) but it has become so extreme and we are so leveraged, we can't cope with a return to a more sane property price landscape.
PS- if I am wrong and you know a beach side town with modest prices, let me know. My family would love a beach house like plenty of my friends enjoyed in the 1980s when I was growing up, of peanuts prices a few hours from town, a few blocks back from the sand. Even in 1987, $80k got a pretty flash beach house a bit further away.