Was front-ended by a merc driver (he reversed into me while at an intersection). This was at low speed so the damage isn't severe, but still noticeable (paint scratches etc.)
While we're both comprehensively insured, he has asked that the repairs be done privately (e.g. not involving the insurance companies) as he feel covering my repairs out of his own pocket would be comparable to his excess. Plus he avoids getting a black mark on his insurance record.
While I'm extremely annoyed by the inconvenience at having to privately source quotes for my vehicle, plus not having access to my car while it is being repaired, I was willing to go along in the spirit of being a good person.
But no good deed goes unpunished, as the saying goes. So what can possibly go wrong to have it done privately? Or should I not chance it and just have my insurance company sort this out?
EDIT:
Forgot to mention that:
1) I'm choosing the repairer myself
2) The at-fault party will pay the repair invoice before the repairs begin, to avoid a situation where they decide not to pay up
Give it to your insurance company, let them deal with him. He does not have to claim on his insurance and can just pay the amount nominated by your insurance company.
What could go wrong? He might decide that he doesn’t want to pay the bill after you get it repaired or will only want to pay is his friend “Habib” gets to do the work, and let’s face it, “Habib” is going to do the cheapest, shittiest job that he can put the least amount of effort into doing.