So as a Asian person whom moved around quite a bit. I felt obligated to elaborate on some of OP’s point from this thread.
Long story short, I’ve spent 14 years growing up in Vietnam, 2 years in Singapore, 13 years in Sydney and the last 6 years in NZ and currently again living in Vietnam. I've been to most major cities in Asia, Tokyo, Taipei, Bangkok etc… Married a Kiwi with 2 kids who are still living in New Zealand. My ultimate end goal is to move back to either Sydney or Melbourne with my now not so new career.
I’m lucky in a sense that I work in a high paying job in Vietnam (by Vietnam standard) and at the same time work remotely part time for the NZ government so my income is good enough to cover my cheap lifestyle in Vietnam and pay for my family in NZ.
Vietnam or specifically Ho Chi Minh isn’t as great as it seems. Cheap food – yes but corruption runs rampant. If you’re looking for a change, you’ll find it great at first and undoubtably then miss the mundane life style Australia or New Zealand offers. There’s only so many times a week you can eat out / drink out before you get sick of it. I know I have. These days I rather cook at home with the $1 massive bunch of vege this place offers.
Can't comment on dating as I'm happily married.
Australia and NZ is so much cleaner. Every time I flew back to Australia -> NZ, I always make sure to take a deep breathe just to enjoy the fresh crisp air that is abundance. That’s something HCM won’t offer.
I’ve spent so many years in and away from Sydney but every time I transit through it, it still wows me as a city. Sydney Harbour is so pretty nothing comes close to it.
Work life balance in Australia is fantastic, I’ve got so many friends who works across Asia that spent 9-10 hours in the office to earn 1-1.5k AUD/month. Versus when I was working in Australia / NE Zealand and I earn that in 2 days barely doing 8 hours/day.
To be clear I do not hate Ho Chi Minh city or Vietnam nor do I overlook the problem Australia is currently facing. But objectively when you weight up the pro and cons, Australia will still be the place I choose to call home when the time comes.
So yes, if you’re looking for something exciting because you’re bored, give Asia a year. But don’t sell up everything and move to it forever because eventually you'll move back.
Great to hear from the other side of the coin.
For all of our problems I don't think a lot of people know how much Australia is a "lucky country". And a lot of that is on the back of these poorer Asian countries.