A wee rant
Yknow what gives me the shits? I'm currently at work, I'm sick and feeling lousy, but I've let myself get guilted into not using my sick leave…
Some background. Couple years ago, between looking after a little kid getting frequently sick after Covid restrictions lifting and also getting sick myself, I ended up having 10 days of personal leave (carers + sick) over 12mo. This prompted my boss to sit me down, and tell me that my "absenteeism" was unacceptable (despite being a "high performer" - his words, not mine)
It was pretty irritating at the time, and while I explained that when i was sick i was going to take time off to recover instead of wasting time in the office, but the result was that I ended up coming into work sick more often than I should have done, and really second-guess myself everytime I'm feeling unwell
It isn't just a thing to do with my boss, it's generally just a big company thing. Having sat through people leader training recently, it was outright stated that 5 days of sick leave per year was too much, and that we should be pulling that person aside to have a chat.
Now i'm sick for 2nd time in 6wks (last time i needed 3 days off for some viral infection that flattened me) and really just need a frigging day off to recover but i'm positive i would be getting another talking to
Anyone else find this happen too? It just annoys me because we're given 10 days of sick leave per year, but the expectation is that you are not allowed to use it. This element of corporate culture is really stuck in the 1920s, and especially after Covid, it's totally bizarre to me
No. It's really not. Many large companies have an accrued sick leave section of your timesheet profile and there's no restrictions on needing to take them. Generally 1-2 days every so often is perfectly fine. They're even encouraging that for mental health nowadays. Feeling stressy? Take a Friday off and book it as sick leave is perfectly fine (pending work/project/client requirements).
If you take a whole week or two off in one go though, you're likely to need some form of explanation to line manager/HR which is fair enough.
Sounds like you need to take some time off and consider alternative employment.