Acer Swift X SFX14-41G-R3P4 GTX 1650 Gaming Laptop 14" FHD AMD Ryzen5 5500U 8GB
The big downside is the 8gb soldered ram.
Yes, I know the 1650 is getting old but finding a 3050 at around $1k in a laptop with decent battery life (i.e. not a dedicated gaming laptop) isn't easy at the moment.
Thoughts? Thanks
Update: So we ended up getting this HP Victus laptop: https://www.ebay.com.au/itm/363930089632
It's bigger and heavier than I'd like (15.6" and 2.2kg), but it was a really good deal for $1187, which is less than half it's "normal" price. HPs eBay store had a 50% off sale which stacked with another coupon. I'm not the one who has to carry it around. It's a Ryzen 7 with a 3050Ti, 16/512 and both the ram and storage are upgradable. Battery life is also great.
As far as "gaming" laptops go, this one is pretty subtle. Fingers crossed it does the job.
$100 more