What Do You Do with Wedding Favours?

Hello :)

I've recently attended a wedding with my daughter as my +1. She was gifted a dish with the bride's and groom's initials printed ( hand-painted?) on it in liquid gold as a wedding favor.It looks similar to this one. While it was a kind gesture, especially considering we are not close, my daughter has no idea what to do with it. Any suggestions?

Thanks ,

JJB

Comments

  • +2

    Use it as a Frisbee.

  • +4

    Put it under an indoor pot plant?
    Donate to Bridget McKenzie's gun club for 12 gauge trap shooting? (apparently they were hard up for cash just before the last election: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-01-22/bridget-mckenzie-spor…)

  • +3

    1.) wait till they get divorced, smash it in half and hand back
    2.) melt the gold off and sell / use for a filling.
    3.) put in attic.

  • +2

    Any suggestions?

    Give it back to them as a christmas present :)

    Honestly no one other than the people who got married would want someone elses personalised wedding stuff. People think its nice, but really is anyone going to use it? nope!

  • +1

    Donate to local charity. Someone will eventually have the same initials and purchase for $1.

    • Bobs don't sound like the kind of blokes who will be into 23k gold-painted, porcelain dishes.

  • +4

    I thought this thread was about something different based on the title of "Wedding favours"….

  • +1

    eBay

  • "especially considering we are not close,"
    why go to the wedding then?
    .

    • My daughter wanted to go. She mostly lives in shorts and t-shirts, especially if she can borrow them from her twin brother's wardrobe. Once in a while, she gets the opportunity to get all dolled-up and she revels in it. She also likes exotic food and it was a modern Indian wedding and the food did not disappoint.

  • Dogs bowl

  • +2

    I just bin these sorts of things, if they even make it out of the reception.

    • +1

      I bin them too. I feel bad, I prefer to donate things to an op-shop, but anything that's easily identifiable by the original gifter I think it's kinder to just disappear it into the bin rather than risk them ever knowing it was unwanted.

  • +1

    If it makes you feel better I recently binned a magnet celebrating the life (received at the funeral) of a person I only met once. Don't overthink stuff or it will consume your life.

  • In an Indian wedding it's tradition for the recipients of the plate to display it in a prominent place at their abode for 18 months (1 month for each of the Hindu Gods).

    • If that was true, why stop at 18 months when there's more than 18 Gods/Goddesses in the hindu tradition?

    • -2

      Sorry, I should have been more specific. It's the 18th most important Gods. Shiva would lay wrath on any plate receiver should this tradition not be followed.

  • +2

    Wedding tshotshkes should be banned - such a waste of money & instant landfill!

    … gifted a dish with the bride's and groom's initials printed ( hand-painted?) on it in liquid gold as a wedding favor.

    You're gonna be an ex-pat soon and that move ain't gonna pay for itself so follow these instructions to remove that liquid gold from the plate & redeem for cash 😉

    If the liquid gold turns out to be faux then upcycle dish as an arts & crafts project for your daughter.

  • Secret santa present?

    • No secret Santa for us. Employer gets everyone the same thing. Last year was 2 gold class movie tickets. Year before a spa voucher for 2.

  • +2

    We have something similar to these that we put change in. Take stuff out of pockets, put in dish. In morning, take stuff out of dish put in pockets.

  • Take it to the next Greek wedding.

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