Initiated a credit card chargeback with financial institution, when merchant became aware of it they suddenly started to be very eager to contact me.
Obviously had previously contacted merchant, had email evidence, they had provided no response beyond "someone would get back to me" etc.
However - they refuse to contact me via return email as I requested. When I didn't respond to their first call within a couple of hours they came over to my house and knocked on the door for a while. They have called numerous times including several calls within a few minutes (I have not answered as I have asked them to use email as I stated).
My question is am I obliged to try to negotiate with them further by answering their calls to try to negotiate a resolution having already given them an opportunity and already lodged the chargeback? I am just not comfortable dealing with them anymore having them turn up on my doorstep without arrangement made me feel really uncomfortable, for all I know he might have been going to have a go at me for filing a chargeback.
The only reason I can see I might try to talk to them at this stage is on the risk that my chargeback might be rejected - and obviously they would refuse to try to negotiate with me again if that happens. It is a dispute over the services provided not a clear cut case of fraud etc so there is a risk it might get rejected or the merchant might win.
Personally, I would call them back, and see what they have to say, even if I don’t necessarily want a face-to-face meeting when they knock on the door.
As you say, it was a service, and although they haven’t delivered to your satisfaction, I am assuming they did give you some service for it. An entire chargeback means the merchant gets nothing for whatever effort/time spent on your job. That can create quite a bit of animosity on their part. Besides, they know where you live.
So it is better to negotiate and settle on something you both can accept. You have nothing to lose by calling. If you can work something out, you can cancel the chargeback; if not, the chargeback still stands.
Edit: Ughhh has a good point, re wanting written proof. So don't call, negotiate via email.