Hi all,
I recently received a shocking legal bill from a family lawyer and i would like to find out if anyone know about professionalism/code of conduct a lawyer should display.
My case was a pretty simple one, where i engaged the lawyer to review the prenup agreement which my partner's lawyer has drawn up. And by after the initial 2 meetings, i told him i was ready to sign. But the lawyer kept putting it off, advising me that I should not sign it and that he is concern about my decision to sign. The debacle went on and on and on, and in the end, he has charged me a fortune for his service. Nothing changed in the end, i was still going to sign it.
In the end, none of the prenup clauses change, and he merely added how much my assets were worth in the contract.
- In each of the face to face meeting with this lawyer, i asked him how much the cost will be after the meeting, he said that I don't have to worry about it.
- During negotiation of cost, he has given me an estimation of how much the service would cost, Between $X and $XX and i told him it was too high, he said: look, maybe it would cost $X.
- I asked him a few times how much costing has been till date, his reply: "I don't know, could be… $X, $Y $Z", the answer of cost to date is vague and he did not reveal how much the cost were to date.
- When the detail bill came, i noticed that he even charge me for reading an email from me, i.e. "Hi D, Monday 9am works for me. See you then" or "Hi D, what's the latest status?" - a lot of times i had to chase him up as he said he would do something in the meeting but still have not done it after a week.
The bill came up to be $XX amount, which is the higher side of the scale - which i could not justify with the amount of service that he has provided and has asked for a itemised bill. I have my own itemised version to compare against - which is not as high as his bill.
So, my questions are:
- Is it common for lawyers to avoid the cost-to-date discussion when you ask them to provide it?
- He led me to believe that the cost might be on the low side $X, but he charged me the high end amount $XX. Is this considered some form of misleading statement?
- A lot of the cost associated are: Perusing email (which was email to confirm appointments from me, or my email to him follow up on status), is this normal?
- I'm sensing that he's trying to prolong the legal process, in hopes to drive more revenue?
I feel helpless as I can't do anything - he is one of the more influential lawyer and going against him would be quite a dumb thing to do. And i don't have a lot of money to lose.
Has anyone has similar experience in dealing with lawyers?
And what can i do moving forward?
Get your partner to pay the bill.