Hi guys, I will apologize in advance as I don't really know what to put down as the title to reflect my question.
My parents have gotten themselves in a sticky situation. They bought a land a year ago and 3 months later, a builder managed to sweet talk them into letting the builder to build the house while my parents registered as the owner-builder, employing him as the project manager. He pressured them to make a decision in a short time and unfortunately that meant a poorly written contract.
Throughout the whole building process he has not stopped emotionally and verbally black-mailing us as a whole family to make sure things go in his favour. He would threaten to run away if we do not comply. On a good day he would offer things on top of what was written on the initial contract, on a bad day ( like tonight), he would refuse to comply with things that were written down in the contract. Tonight, when asked about a certain item written down in the contract, he just snapped it at us. We think we have had enough of his attitude and are now seeking ways to terminate our relationship. He currently hold 100k and more of our money, with no physical work being done. He also has a lot of certificates for work that were carried out on the foundation of the house and has refused/avoided to give them to us.
I would like to know who I should contact to talk about this.
Regards,
A very distressed family
TLDR; Sneaky builder got parents to sign up as owner-builder, refusing to comply with contract, a scary and unreasonable person in general. 10/10 would not recommend.
Why did he get 100k ? Payments should only be handed over in stages of completion.