TL;DR: have you ever been on the receiving end of road rage? Or on the giving-end of it? lol
What are the most ridiculous, stupid or plain dangerous things you've witnessed on the roads?
Long version: So after a frustrating day of lengthy driving from one end of Sydney to the other, and back again twice today.. I'm seriously fed up with sharing a road with some of the people out there (in vehicles and pedestrians).
My day didn't involve road 'rage' as such, but the minor experiences have left me unsurprised that some people lose their cool on the roads.
Two incidents today in particular really pissed me off:
In a small car park, wanting to turn right into an 'aisle'. Middle aged lady in a tiny hatchback is to my right in the aisle I'm turning into - I had the right of way. Anyway, as I'm turning, she starts beeping hysterically, throwing her hands up in the air, freaking out while I'm turning right and her car is past being perpendicular to mine. No-one is behind me, so I stop, wind down my window as we're driver-side to driver-side… and ask what's wrong. She points at the front corner of her car, as if to say my car is about to shear off the corner of her car. There was a 2 foot gap between the front corner of her car and the side of mine. I told her that, and she promptly stopped flailing her arms and shut up… and I continued on my merry way. The dude in a car behind her watched the whole scene and was having a good laugh. I'd hate to see that woman in a bigger car. Boggles the mind how people with no spatial awareness manage to obtain licences.
I was on the North Shore, approaching a roundabout on a relatively busy street. No cars on or approaching the roundabout so I didn't plan to come to a stop. A young male wearing headphones was approaching the middle island just before the roundabout - wanting to cross the lane I'm in. He obviously wasn't paying any attention and nearly walked into the side of my car but caught himself before he made contact. He then walks behind my car, turns around and kicks the other side of my car. My blood instantly boiled. I turned left just to follow the twat down the street he was walking - pulled up to the kerb, wound down my window and yelled at him lol. Batshit crazy response, probably, but to freaking kick my car when he decides to cross a street like it's a pedestrian crossing when it's not… a part of me wishes he did get himself hit.
Young driver hogging the outside lane of the M2 doing 60km/h (100km/h limit) because she's busy chatting away on her mobile phone.
aaaand breathe.
Sometimes their hesitation is actually dangerous. Over the weekend, I was a passenger in a car that was coming down a busy main road with a 90kmh limit. Lots of cars in both lanes. Another busy road had an offramp/onramp onto the road we were on - the ramp was longgg with clear visibility of oncoming traffic and a long merging opportunity.
We were in the left lane. The merging car was well ahead of us, so were were slowing down giving him plenty of room to merge in. He didn't… he slowed to a crawl til his lane practically ended, but kept crawling and indicating. We slowed more. He seemed to speed up a bit and appeared to be planning to merge in front of us. Then he braked again. So we started speeding up as the room ahead was decreasing, and he obviously wasn't going to merge any time soon. As we sped up, he let off his brakes again. Bloody confusing. My driver wasn't being aggressive at all - very patient in fact - but the traffic behind us wasn't happy about slowing down for us hesitating because this guy was hesitating. He has right of way, he's just meant to merge without even checking lol but he threw everyone off.
It's a hazard. We could've both decided to take off at the same time and crashed, and you can't expect the traffic behind us to be slowing down as they're flying through at 90kmh or more (notorious road for speeding - always police hiding around the bend of where we were).
So no, I don't believe it's better to be safe by hesitating. Different situations mean that hesitating can have pretty different consequences.