I finally managed to get a date with a guy who is "Normal" about money. Likes to have a good time. Doesn't pinch pennies, etc.
In a few hours, we're going to a place in the Entertainment Book that would give about $50 discount. The entrees are $30+ and the mains go from $40 up and up. Then there's the wine and the extras. He's taking a cab that cost him at least $50 each way. I'm meeting him there.
I don't think I'm likely to whip out my card to save him money. Not because I want to save it for future personal use, I just don't know how he'd take it. This is a first date. He will be paying. He's made that clear.
I just absolutely hate being in a position to help someone I like and not doing it. It is PAINFUL. In this instance though I think it would be a strategic mistake, in so far as how he perceives me, so I don't intend to do it. It could possibly embarrass hi, There are actually people who get embarrassed by that sort of thing and I think he could be one of them.
Would anyone here offer their Entertainment card under these circumstances?
Would you really want to date someone stupid enough to pay $50 more than he has to on the meal?
The trick is, how do you offer without him feeling awkward about it…
I'd just be really casual about it when its time to present the card.
Hopefully he'll see it as a win-win.
Good luck with your Monday dinner date.