The definitions of these terms don't seem very consistent or clear.
And so headphone shopping is driving me insane.
I want headphones where the cups go completely around my ears and do not touch my ears at all.
But every time I order 'over ear' headphones, they are to some extent on ear headphones.
I also want them to have wires because wireless scares me. And they're becoming harder to find.
Are there any shops left where you can try on headphones?
Are there any brands with big ear cups?
Maybe you just have big ears. You may want to order some replacement ear pad things with thicker foam to lift them off your ears. It'll change the sound a little, but not touching your ears is probably more important. Plenty of wireless headphones have a 3.5mm or 2.5mm jack to use in wired mode. Wireless sure is nice so that's what I'd get if I had to have wired. Also the amp/dac built into the headphones for wireless is probably better tuned to the headphones and higher quality than the amp/dac in your phone or computer.