I’m at the end of a relationship and extremely depressed while typing this. I’m a foreigner and I met my partner few years back in Melbourne and we’ve been living together for over a year now. I was going to apply for a partner visa by the end of this year. We met a lawyer who deals in LGBT cases who is a part of a non profit organisation. He suggested us to register our relationship under Victoria, but by doing that my partners disability support pension will get cut off/reduced. When I read the rules I understood that as couple (I am the only person who is working) if I earn more than $320 a fortnight, 40 cents will be cut from each dollar upwards. I earn around 5k (after tax) per month as a support worker. But with that, his pension will get completely cut off and if I understood correctly that will affect the discount on his medicines and brain scans (which is a lot). We have rent, bills, loans etc to pay, which leave us with nothing at the end of the month.
I assured him to support him no matter what, but he is very reluctant in registering this relationship and doesn’t want to depend on me. He had a brain cancer around 10 years back and he had to sell his house for his surgery. If his family had helped he would have still had a house. Ever since that he’s very paranoid about money matters. Because of this situation things are very grim. We were a happy couple until this happened. I wasn’t prepared for this one from Centrelink. I am heartbroken and don’t know what to do.
Is there anything I can do? Am I missing something? Any help would be appreciated.
That's the norm here in Australia. Never get married, make kids as you can, apply for single parent and continue living together as normal. Done deal.