When I was in my previous company, I briefly worked with someone who was hired as a manager of a team that works very closely with mine. Unfortunately he did not perform as expected, and was probably asked to leave about 3 weeks into his role.
His last update before that was he had opened a coffee shop and was probably earning more than his previous white collar job.
Anyhow, I sent him a LinkedIn message during Christmas to ask him how he was doing, and was shocked to find out his son was diagnosed with cancer. Worst still, I think it coincided with COVID and he was not able to run his shop - given his son had chemo and he was advised to be more vigilant not to bring any disease back. I suspect that ended the business for him.
As a father, I can understand how much pressure it is on him. With not much income and the pain his son has to go through, it is pretty much a dead end whatever he does.
Was wondering how can I help. I know there are many people who are in the same boat and its impossible to help everyone but I feel somewhat connected this time given I know him in person, was a decent gentleman and it makes me feel helpless / bad not being able to help.
Just wanted to find out if there are any practical ways that I can do to help this guy here
You have good intentions and good on you.
It might be a good idea to suggest getting a coffee or lunch together and catching up. Sometimes people just need someone to listen and if you can do that I'm sure it'll mean a lot.