So I applied for a job recently, had a couple of interviews which seemed to go well in my head. Fast forward a few weeks and I still hadn't heard back from them and thought it was a little inconsiderate to not even call me about me not getting the job. But thought, hey that's life I guess.
Then one of my colleagues basically tells me the person X (who interviewed me) says hi with a smirk. And I was like what - and then joined the dots that X knows my colleague and would have told them about me coming for that interview.
I felt pretty disgusted.
a) The company didn't have the decency to let me know that I was unsuccessful.
b) I'm pretty sure it was unethical to contact someone from my organisation (who I haven't specified as a referee) and let them know about my application as I feel it easily could hurt my chances in my current company as this news can easily travel fast that I'm looking for jobs.
What is everyone's take on this scenario? What should i do?
Unless there's a confidentiality agreement in place there's nothing illegal about it.