I recently listed a Switch game on eBay and received an offer which I accepted. The buyer messaged me asking "what's the best price I can do?" and I replied that I wasn't haggling and expected to be paid the original offer plus postage. The buyer then claimed that they left a note when making the offer saying that "shipping costs would be excluded". I don't remember seeing the note and I can't find any evidence of it. I contacted eBay customer service who advised me to request a screenshot of the note from the buyer as it would be available in their messages. Well, I guess I called their bluff as they stopped responding and still haven't paid for the game. I have the feeling they are regretting their purchase and are trying to scam me to reduce the overall cost.
I now have two options:
1 - I cancel the transaction and relist the game and get stuck with eBay fees (what I'm sure the buyer is wanting me to do).
2 - I open a payment dispute which will reimburse me the fees and eBay will take action against the buyers account (they buy a lot of stuff with 400+ positive reviews), but it will take around a month to be resolved and I won't be able to relist the game until everything is concluded.
I'm in the process of relocating which is why I'm selling most of my games, so I'm considering taking the loss and relisting it because I could always use the extra cash. On the other hand I want the buyer to be penalized for pulling this crap.
What do you guys think?
Your choice 1, (or 2).