My father has some pretty noticeable dementia going on and I've called in the ACAT people to check him out and see what services are available to keep him semi-independently living by himself. He does not want to go into a home, ever, though I acknowledge that's likely how most people feel.
I haven't been through this before, but have become his carer to help him dodge nursing homes for as long as humanly possible. Living with him isn't an option, so I've gone for the next best thing and rent nearby. I'm seeking info from others who have been through similar.
Regarding ACAT, is it best to push for the whole enchilada, ie a Level 4 (of 4) diagnosis? The info floating around in the ether suggests this can take years to be approved/enacted following ACAT assessment. Do you have access to everything in say levels 1 and 2 from the get-go during this time if you qualify for the higher 3 and 4? It seems the services available through level 1 and 2 are granted immediately by comparison if he gets assessed at that.
Should I be pushing for level 3 or 4 and hence calling attention to every symptom of his dementia of which there are many? (ie taking the assessor to the bathroom to show the kettle that just keeps being put there for some reason no matter how many times I set it up in the kitchen, and worse), or will that somehow work to our detriment?
Also, is there any way an ACAT assessment can result in someone being forcefully removed from their place?
The most important thing is your father's wellbeing and ACAT will conduct the assessment with that objective in mind. They will assess his mental and physical abilities, but they can't force any action unless a state appointed guardian decides so. You will need to decide if you want to take on the task of being your father's guardian and/or administrator.
There's a lot to consider and going through all the issues on a bargain forum is impractical. I suggest contacting a professional to help guide you through your options or at least read through some documentation.