I am currently in Japan and sold some stuff worth a few hundred dollars on eBay to a buyer in the US. It was sent registered with tracking, however, the last update to the tracking was when it left the country. There has not been an update since, and it was sent about 2 months ago.
The buyer has kindly messaged me saying that they have yet to receive anything, and I am willing to work with them but was wondering what sort of protection I have, if at all.
PayPal will likely refund the buyer if there is no proof of delivery, and I understand the buyer should get a refund, but am I just then left to bear the loss of the item and money?
Registered post only covers up to around $100, so I will still be a couple hundred out of pocket.
Tracking is always iffy in other countries. I've had several buyers receive their items and leave feedback despite the tracking not showing 'delivered', so tracking really means nothing. This means that in this case, there is the possibility also that the buyer did receive the item but it's just not showing as 'delivered'. My point is that if tracking isn't updated properly, you really don't know if things are genuinely lost or if buyers are taking advantage of items not tracking properly.
So what are my options here? Are there any consumer laws that could help me against PayPal just refunding the buyer? Or is this just something I have to chin?
Yes. Ownership and risk changes when it arrives. Effectively the post lost your mail.
If the tracking shows it's missing, the onus would be on you to show that the buyer's received it.
The buyer is the consumer here, the consumer laws mean they get the refund.