A couple of Fridays ago, late in the evening, I placed an order for something at 'apusexpress2'. I instantly realised I had submitted the order with the wrong delivery address (I have both my home and work addresses in eBay). Within 10 minutes I had submitted a request to cancel the order and had placed a new order with the desired address.
I've had to do this a few times before and it's never been an issue.
Come Monday morning, I get an emails notifying me that my order was not able to be cancelled and that both orders had shipped.
I contacted the seller and got the response "Both orders were already shipped out and therefore we could no longer hold or cancel the order.".
This was obviously a lie, considering I had requested the cancellation over 48 hours prior to the orders being shipped. I'm sure they didn't process and dispatch the order in the 7 minutes between me submitting and requesting cancellation of the order.
Further communication with the store proved futile as did communication with eBay (which was more disappointing).
I contemplated contacting PayPal however, give the value of the purchase (it's not trivial but certainly not something to lose sleep over), I don't think I want to waste more time on this.
Has anyone experienced this with sellers on eBay?
Whether it be eBay or some other online store, I've never previously had a cancellation request ignored.
When you click the Confirm button, you should have already checked that all your details are correct. You can't expect the seller to go out of their way to pull out your individual order because you couldn't be bothered finalising things to start with.
Who knows? It could be that orders go to one place and enquiries go to another. Just because one seller is willing to deal with your laziness/carelessness, doesn't mean that every seller would.
I would suggest you check your details next time before confirming your orders.