tl;dr
Interstate eBay buyer paid for local pickup item, wants it delivered, but is unreachable. What to do?
The full story
A week ago I sold an eBay item for $50 that was listed as local pickup only. There were no shipping options included in the listing and payment methods were either PayPal or cash on pickup. In the item description I said:
"Would prefer pickup, but if you really want it posted, send a message so we can work something out."
There was a single bidder and they paid using PayPal 4 hours after the auction ended. One minute later they sent a message asking to provide postage costs, but without supplying the shipping address. In the meantime I sent them the pickup details. Since then I managed to get their shipping address via PayPal and have supplied them with a shipping cost estimate. First I sent a message with an approximate cost and then later a message with exact cost and a request to pay that cost via PayPal. In total I sent the buyer 4 eBay messages in the last week, provided my contact details, including phone number and left them one voice mail message, but I am getting no responses at all.
Shipping costs will come to about $42 on a $50 item. The buyer got lucky with the purchase price, similar items have sold in the past for a lot more. On the other hand, we wanted to clear up some space before Christmas, so didn't mind selling it cheap. Didn't expect it to drag out and become a headache.
So, what do I do next? As far as I can see, eBay doesn't have an option to cancel the transaction because the buyer has gone AWOL after paying. Do I just keep their money and wait for them to make contact? At the moment I have 100% feedback, but only about 100 transactions. I don't particularly want to get a neg because the buyer is stuffing about.
Cancel sale as "there is a problem with the buyers address"
That should the refund the buyer.
Repost item.