The Matrix Of Conflict: Understanding why we get trapped in confrontational situations and adopting a unique & new approach to winning
Amazon's Book Description:
Have you ever felt, while in the middle of a confrontation, like how Neo felt in 'The Matrix' - like there was another person taking over you, saying things you never meant to say and doing things you never intended to do, so that afterwards, you feel like everything was so unreal, making you feel frustrated?
In his 16 years of consulting with and training people worldwide on how to manage conflicts, Asaf Shani noticed that people tend to fall into a trap when entering a conflict, which leaves them feeling dissatisfied even when they get what they want. He calls this trap 'the Matrix of conflict', which he explains in detail in this book.
In this book, you will find out what happens when you enter into a conflict - things that you're not even aware of but which greatly affect the outcome of the situation. You will also learn the warning signs that you're about to slide into 'the Matrix' so you can stop and take control, and what direction you can steer the conflict into once you're back in the driver's seat.
All of this is explained in easy terms, using quotes from 'The Matrix' film, simplified age-old philosophical theories and fun true-to-life anecdotes. At the end, you will be told exactly what you can do so that you can better manage your conflicts in the future, whether conflicts with your spouse, your mother-in-law, your colleague or a client, and in this way, you can escape 'the Matrix' once and for all.
Author: Asaf Shani; Editor: Melissa Javellana.
Length: 62 pages.
Published: July 18, 2013.
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