The story goes like this:
I bid for an item and won it. After winning, I received a message from the seller that her paypal is not working and would like me to do direct transfer. I refused that by saying I do not do bank transfers and since her ad never mentioned that PayPal isn't working, I bid for that particular item. So I told her that I m happy to wait till her paypal issue is resolved and make payment once she has sorted this with paypal. Well, that was 1.5 months back. I have written some 5-6 times to her already about what happened to the paypal thing and even offered pickup (as I was visiting that city) but absolutely no response to her. Going to ebay and make a complaint seems a bit too harsh to me (if that's an option at all :))… The product was meant for my lil one, hence, I do want to just let it go.. So looking upto fellow ozbargainers here for some advice on how to deal with this…
Cheers
Make a compliant as a non performing seller & neg her if it lets you, she was probably a scammer when you didn't fall for it she's ignoring you. Then let it go, I'm sure there's other honest sellers selling similar stuff on eBay but don't let her cancel the transaction otherwise she will get a refund of her ebay fees.