I was recently at a semi-large retailer where a customer wanted to return a product which the sales assistant said could not be returned because it had been opened and used. The sales assistant said that the customer should contact head office if they wanted to discuss it further because it wasn't within their power to do anything. There was obviously more to this discussion, but I wasn't there for the whole duration. It's also not a one off as I've seen it occur quite often.
I'm sure that someone here has gotten into an argument with a sales assistant before. I'm curious as to why, as customers, we take it out on sales assistants who are pretty much just following store policy and saying what they've been told to say?
Depends on the circumstances. I've had 'discussions' with sales assistants who begin the conversation stubborn, claim they have no authority but refuse to escalate to manager.
There are also those who are rude to anyone looking for after sales service, ie roll eyes when you ask for something or call you difficult or a time waster.
You can usually tell the difference between those who have chosen to 'stonewall you' and those who are genuinely a dead end and can't help.
It does usually take 2 people for an argument. Is it more bullying that you are referring to?